I’m probably gonna regret saying this but Unpopular Opinion time:
She kind of had every right to be angry in this situation. I know we’re supposed to like feel sorry for Sheldon and want him and Jenny to get together and stuff over the course of the series, but my issue with that is Sheldon is a canon example of Nice Guy Syndrome and trying to play it straight faced.
He falls instantly in love with her the second he sees her without knowing her personality, becoming obsessed with her simply because she’s basically a living personification of his fetish. He then proceeds to stalk her, invade her privacy and personal space ((he’s grabbed her and she had to invoke her robotic strength to make him let go because asking him nicely did nothing)), won’t leave her alone when she asks, and in his attempts to get with her blatantly lies to her, manipulates her, and belittles her personal preference for guys/accuses everyone else she possibly likes as being a jackass and she should be with him instead because she will never find anyone better and be lonely the rest of her life otherwise. I’m not even exaggerating, he says this outright in the episode “Shell Game”. In fact, if you recall, only reason he made his Silver Shell alter-ego was to deliberately treat Jenny like garbage so she’d be heartbroken/be turned off of dating another robot and come crying to him. That’s not love, that’s horrible and emotionally abusive.
Almost all his attempts to woo Jenny involve lying to/manipulating her or others ((ie paying another girl money to pretend to date him so that Jenny would become jealous and want him)) but since he’s an awkward, quirky geek we’re supposed to overlook that and root for him. I don’t like it, and it’s always made me uncomfortable how the writing is apparently trying to make us think the way he behaves is sweet and genuine. It’s not.
Don’t get me wrong, I love this show, and I like Sheldon as a character other than this aspect of him. If you ship it, fine, but it’s always something about how it’s presented in canon that’s bothered me, personally, a lot.
weirdly enough I always ship jenny as asexual. (but romantic)